Dr. Sha-Lai
The Pastor's Therapist

I help pastors, leaders, professionals, and lay people, who are struggling with unidentified, unexposed and unresolved trauma, so they can enjoy personal, professional, and spiritual freedom.

I do this by helping you make the shift from stuck to starting to success.

My simple goal is this: to help you #BeYourBestYou.

Photo credit: Think Yourself Happy Event Planning

The Pastor's Therapist

Providing objective, effective counsel and therapeutic services to pastors and spiritual leaders.

Group Trainings

Providing psychoeducation and trainings to pastors and spiritual leaders about their mental health and well-being.

Individual Work

Providing therapeutic services to individuals who have been impacted by religious trauma and spiritual abuse.

Strategic Inverventions

Providing strategic interventions for anyone with unique challenges and would benefit from tailored support.

Upcoming Events

Galentine's Night Get-together
Fri, Feb 14
Game Show Battle Rooms
Feb 14, 2025, 6:00 PM – 10:00 PM
Game Show Battle Rooms, 17089 N Outer 40 Rd, Chesterfield, MO 63005, USA
Feb 14, 2025, 6:00 PM – 10:00 PM
Game Show Battle Rooms, 17089 N Outer 40 Rd, Chesterfield, MO 63005, USA
Join us for a night for fun and games at Game Show Battle Rooms... all with your new besties!! We might even grab some food afterwards!
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Roar like a Lioness Women's Conference 2025
Sat, Apr 05
Survel Event Center
Apr 05, 2025, 9:30 AM – 4:30 PM
Survel Event Center, 5300 N Belt W, Belleville, IL 62226, USA
Apr 05, 2025, 9:30 AM – 4:30 PM
Survel Event Center, 5300 N Belt W, Belleville, IL 62226, USA
Join us for the 5th Annual Roar like a Lioness Women's Conference on Saturday, April 5, 2025!! Every conference has been powerful and this one is going higher! God is up to something so let's Run with It!!
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House of Esther: Re-teach Re-treat
Fri, Jun 20
Location is TBD
Jun 20, 2025, 6:00 PM – Jun 22, 2025, 1:00 PM
Location is TBD
Jun 20, 2025, 6:00 PM – Jun 22, 2025, 1:00 PM
Location is TBD
Join eight ladies for an intimate time of teaching, fellowship, healing and deliverance. Space is limited so reserve your spot soon!
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