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Dr. S
Jun 15, 2020
The Coveted Collection part 5: Friends
How many of you have ever heard that being friends with women is hard? Ever been on the receiving end of having a homegirl that was just...
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Dr. S
Jun 8, 2020
The Coveted Collection part 4: Hair
If you’ve been reading this blog series, you may be wondering if I was ever satisfied with anything about myself! I know right... it’s...
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Dr. S
Jun 4, 2020
"Some Things Take Time" part 5: Wanna Try Again?
Her story: It appeared to be a typical morning for Rhya, as she prepared to make her routine stop at SunDollar’s coffee shop just before...
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Dr. S
Jun 1, 2020
The Coveted Collection part 3: Body Image
Growing up I was always trying to figure out my body, what I liked, what I didn’t like, who I wanted to look like or did I want to be...
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Dr. S
May 28, 2020
"Some Things Take Time" part 4: Life Goes On
His story: If it wasn’t for his love of kids and his belief that there was an immense need for more black male pediatricians, Jabari...
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Dr. S
May 25, 2020
The Coveted Collection part 2: Family
My origin story may be fairly typical, though I didn’t realize that as a young child. I remember growing up in a home with my mom and...
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Dr. S
May 21, 2020
"Some Things Take Time" part 3: We Ain't Ready
Her story: If that boy asks me to go to church with him one more time, I think I’ll scream, Rhya fumed as she thought about yet another...
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Dr. S
May 18, 2020
The Coveted Collection part 1: Whiteness
If you’re in your forties, you may recall Whoopi Goldberg’s 1985 comedy special on Broadway. In it, she portrayed a number of characters...
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Dr. S
May 14, 2020
"Some Things Take Time" part 2: We Tried It
Her story: Rhya had just checked her grades online to see how she did on her first major paper of the year. Huh. Not another C, she...
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Dr. S
May 13, 2020
What You See is What You Get...
Take a moment to think about something with me. Have you ever watched a movie, and had such a strong reaction to an actor as s/he...
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Dr. S
May 7, 2020
"Some Things Take Time" part 1: First Sight
His story: Jabari smiled to himself as he started to walk across campus. First off, not only had he gotten into his number one choice...
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Dr. S
Apr 23, 2020
I'm a Good Woman
Originally written in 2005, this poem illustrates an emotionally abuse relationship that I endured for years. As I've aged, become more...
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Dr. S
Mar 30, 2020
"Not Your Typical Love Story" part 4: Everything that Glitters Ain't Gold
If you’ve come along for this whole journey, you know that I’ve shared about the mistake I made in getting married the first time, you...
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Dr. S
Mar 23, 2020
"Not Your Typical Love Story" part 3: Soft Words and Hard Prophecy
Soooo, this post was not a part of the original trilogy; however, there were some questions that arose from part 2 and, as I was planning...
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Dr. S
Mar 15, 2020
"Not Your Typical Love Story" part 2: The One that Got Away
Welcome back! We left off with me being a stubborn goat, and let me tell you: that did NOT work out well at all!! The short version is...
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Dr. S
Mar 9, 2020
"Not Your Typical Love Story" part 1: My First Mistake
My first marriage was the epitome of what not to do if you're saved and single. While everyone has a different (love) story, and some...
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Dr. S
Feb 10, 2020
And Just Like That!!
Earlier today I posted a video about the fact that time moves whether you move with it or not, so imagine my surprise when I happened...
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Dr. S
Mar 12, 2010
It's been a long time!
To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven: A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,...
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